henna
@hennacth
fanatiek hondenknuffelaar | @rutgersNL
If you want to maintain healthy relationships in your life you have to learn how to reconcile the right way. When you mistreat or mishandle someone that you love and care about, apologize to them AND address the issue. Waiting for time to pass hoping it will get better is (1/3)
The worst kind of heartbreak is knowing the relationship was so fixable… but the other person just didn’t care enough to try, it makes me so angry.
if someone i care about asks me for reassurance, i will never put them in a position where they think it’s a burden each time they ask, or feel as though they need to apologize for asking. that is the bare minimum i can do.
your soulmate is someone who’s committed to working things out with you & doesn’t see breaking up as an option. they’re willing to have difficult conversations & are always devoted to finding solutions that make the both of you feel secure, reassured, & happy in your relationship
i be going all way back to the first message to see how this ngga tricked me
bro just letting you know the way you treat me while i’m still in my developmental stages (27 years old) will impact me for the rest of my life
In order to fully tell the story of my breakup to my friends I must begin with the day I was born
imagine fumbling someone who wanted the absolute best for you without anything in return but your time & reassurance.. wild
July dragging... why does it feel like this everyday
even if you left late, you still left. even if you stayed too long, you’re not stuck there anymore. today is a good day to forgive the version of you who didn’t know how to go.
But now you’re being told you just didn’t get along. Now the reason it didn’t work is being framed like it’s mutual. Like it just “wasn’t meant to be.” Even though you were the only one doing the work to hold it together.
So now, you’re not just grieving the loss of him. You’re sitting in the quiet guilt of betraying your own instincts. What they also don’t tell you is that often they’ll pull back to make it seem like it’s your fault. They never say “I’m done.”