Ellie
@basilYam
a collection of all my cringe thoughts, beliefs and actions. for your viewing pleasure.
Maybe men and women can understand each other and have sympathy for each other’s struggles!
many women need to 10x their expressiveness/demandingness to communicate successfully when they want something from a man, and men need to 10x how important they're registering any given request or complaint from many women
never tweet. if you tweet people might disagree with you, and then you have to be annoyed
So many women approach dating like they're trying to trap a rabbit and teach it a lesson, forgetting that dating and men are like everything else in life - something you can't control at all, with your satisfaction and result based entirely on your own perspective and detachment
This wave of heterofatalism is an unwillingness of women & men alike to try to relate to each other entirely, something the author addresses. But still I wonder if the solution to the "trouble" of wanting men is to stop framing it as "trouble" at all. nytimes.com/2025/07/21/mag…
I love attention. No I hate it. Wait I love it again pay attention to me. STOP NOW