Allyson Taft
@AllyTaft
My life is incredible because I deliberately built it this way. I post about personal and professional strategies for living the life you want.
Finally got around to sharing these with my very tall guy. 10/10 highly recommend. His only complaint was that they should sell a larger bag, as these are simply "not Texas-sized."

Incredible transformation Anything is possible if you put your mind to it
This is mortifying to post, but many of you have DMed asking to see my full transformation and advice about how I did it. So here it goes. This is exactly how I lost 120+ lbs and changed my entire life in just under a year. First, I thought of the life I wanted and person I…
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Was in love with a man and came to Dallas to visit him during covid. Over drinks, he told me he loved me enough to be honest with me. He knew how I felt about him, but the future mother of his children would be a woman who took care of herself. I was devastated, but I took what…
You can come up with every excuse in the book but at the end of the day getting in the best shape of your life is YOUR choice. You either do the work to get the job done or you don’t.
Was in love with a man and came to Dallas to visit him during covid. Over drinks, he told me he loved me enough to be honest with me. He knew how I felt about him, but the future mother of his children would be a woman who took care of herself. I was devastated, but I took what…
share a piece of lore about your dating life
I have a good friend who has a bunch of characteristics that I think should be appealing to the opposite sex even though they’re not, plus some that are definitely not appealing to the opposite sex (but I will downplay these). Can’t get a date. Modern dating is broken.
I bought American Eagle jeans yesterday, and I'm not ashamed to admit it.
share a piece of lore about your dating life
Stop taking dating advice from people who aren't in happy, stable relationships.
If you are a woman who wants to be in a happy longterm relationship, I recommend taking advice from women who are in happy longterm relationships instead of single women who hold obvious resentment toward men.
The ideal for a woman is a man that every woman wants, but he only wants her. Being the guy who gets women = desire Being the guy she can trust will only be for her = comfort All attraction is a balance of these two inputs.
Why advertising that you sleep around kills your chances with most girls (even if you think it looks alpha) With the launch of this tea app to rate guys, I've noticed a trend Some guys are trying to be clever suggesting that if they get posted in there, it's actually a good…
It's crazy how much a 36 hour business trip can make you miss a person. Cannot wait to get back to my very tall guy.
I found out after being mutuals with an anon account for 2+ years that we actually matched on Hinge in my dating apps era but never successfully made it out for a date.
Sitting in an airport bar, you really notice how well-matched most couples are. Your spouse really is a direct reflection on you.
I love the version of myself that I am when I’m with my man.
I never cease to be amazed by how incredibly tacky people can be.
Why advertising that you sleep around kills your chances with most girls (even if you think it looks alpha) With the launch of this tea app to rate guys, I've noticed a trend Some guys are trying to be clever suggesting that if they get posted in there, it's actually a good…