🎀Nessa🎀

Being obsessed with the superficial trappings of masculinity (e.g. gym, stacking cash, getting girls) reveals a fundamentally un-masculine focus on social status and what others think. True masculinity is agency, discipline and indifference to the opinions of others.

Healing my self esteem had a lot to do with my therapist pointing out that *it was always there* I was telling her about a time I endured abuse, and she replied "So you knew, even then, even with someone actively stomping down your self worth, you knew you deserved better."

I keep some under my pillow so I can have better dream recall, it works fr.

i love this video !! this is why i’m always talking about venus ruling food because it unites people and makes us so happy. look at how she lit up just by being offered a meal !! ❤️

I promise you. Men who aren’t trash don’t get offended when women talk about the ones who are. We don’t feel attacked. We feel empathy. Because we know they’re not talking about us. The ones who are trying to silence you are a part of the problem. So ladies, speak your truth.

Every life matters 🐦‍⬛

The softest parts of a woman only come out when it’s safe to. So many men say they want a soft woman, a feminine woman, a gentle woman. But softness isn’t a trait, it’s a response. You don’t get it by demanding it. You get it by earning it. You create it when you give her a…

Will we ever be comfortable saying that some ppl become v attached to their mental illness + navigate social media spaces w/ their mental illness as a part of their personality to the point where tackling it is akin to rejecting/excising a fundamental part of themselves?

Girl you is not my opppp you just mad we ain’t friends nomo 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

The safety and security you feel when someone is certain about you? Unmatched.

yeah

it’s actually wild how making one healthy change in your life creates this ripple effect leading to a completely changed lifestyle. it just happens so naturally

the fastest way to kill motivation is to make your identity depend on the outcome. it’s called ego involvement. when failing becomes failing as a person, your brain starts avoiding the whole thing. not because you don’t care, but because you care too much.

i have no remorse for people that fumble me. i make it too easy, i'm easy going, caring and genuine. but once you on the outside you gotta stay there

OMFG

NEVER SETTLE! For 3 years I watched my HG have disappointing birthdays consisting of her bum ass bf planning last min shit and making her pay This year? BABYYYY her new man planned an entire day of her favorite activities and a night at this beautiful waterfront restaurant 🥹💖

Wild I actually talked about this in therapy, a mix of growing up in an abusive household + moving a LOT (any time I made friends we'd be moving like the next year) it made me worryingly detached, very out of sight out of mind, the only person I miss is my husband fjhdjg

You ever been so disappointed in someone that you forgive them and don't say anything, but in your head you detach yourself from them completely.