Ruby
@rubydice100
Organizer of unusual orgies. One-boxer. Fluffer.
Extremely proud of myself for this theme. And also for calling it The Ones Who Walk Away from Omaellas
this weekend! my friends threw a free use theme which im not very into (i like cnc) and so i didn't plan to go, so they secretly made it an omelas theme where i would get kidnapped, brought to the party, and get tortured in the basement to power the utopian party. but one of the…
Ok the replies to this have me convinced nobody is ready for “the invisible labor of being a dom” discourse
I’m not making a judgment either way, but I read the reddit BDSM sub for an article a while back and it was surprising how many women were begging their boyfriends/husbands to be doms and the men were just very not into it
I have not found being poly to be a constant challenge (the opposite, in fact - our additional partners enrich the lives of both me and my husband)
after 84 years of polyamory discourse my tentative conclusion is that for most people monogamy is occasionally challenging but ultimately the best option by far, whereas polyamory/open marriages are a constant challenge even for the narrow population genuinely suited to them
Why do I love it so much when people are turned on by things they don't endorse
When you see screenshots of two of your boyfriends chatting and they are just talking about how much they love you 🥹🥹🥹
What exactly are the skills involved in being a good communicator? Beyond introspection, I think some key ones are: - knowing and seeking out what you need to feel secure receiving difficult truths - being calibrated around how and when to deliver difficult truths to others
New boy has an anki deck for oral sex In other news I am now a big fan of spaced repetition
higgeldy-piggeldy haters of polyness oft post replies that are tiresome as these; structuralistically microfascistically un-lubricatedly fluff yourselves, please.
I know it shouldn't surprise me at this point but I am still taken aback at the level of hatred people have for poly people in the reactions to my most recent very innocuous poly tweet
I know it shouldn't surprise me at this point but I am still taken aback at the level of hatred people have for poly people in the reactions to my most recent very innocuous poly tweet
