Gemma Aitchison (BA hons, MSc, PGCE)
@gemma_brett
Founder of YES Matters UK. Speaker, consultant, blogger, carer, working class radical feminist. (dyslexic, dyspraxic, ADHD) https://yesmattersukreact.home.blog/
Sexual objectification culture - a thread.

It took all the strength I had to report my rapist. I endured a justice system that was brutal and traumatic, but against all odds I secured a conviction. After that I waived my anonymity in the hopes of helping others. The price of doing this was a campaign of abuse.
GP could face probe over abusive rape survivor posts bbc.in/4m4nP7d
💥#FiLiA2025 speaker news!💥 GEMMA AITCHISON, @gemma_brett, @matters_yes founder, working class radical #feminist, FiLiA volunteer & cake-lover 🧁who works around gender stereotypes as key to #MVAWG prevention, will be speaking at #FiLiA 🎟️ filia.org.uk/tickets #Brighton
CONVICTED: On 24 July 2024, Anita Rose, 57, was found unconscious on a path in Brantham, Suffolk. She had been badly beaten and died in hospital four days later. A stranger, Roy Barclay, 55, has been convicted of murder.
You can leave an abuser but the family court ensures you never truly escape him.
Baroness Lola Young: 'Children in care shouldn't be a route to profit' - Big Issue bigissue.com/news/politics/…
A serial rapist who held an axe to the throat of one of his victims has been jailed for seven years. Kyle Jackson,19, from Paisley, was found guilty of 10 charges including the repeated rape of two girls. bbc.co.uk/news/articles/…
Feminism is a rage fuelled movement. So if men want to get rid of it, they just need to stop doing things that make us angry. Problem solved.
CONVICTED: On, 11 February 2025, Megan Hughes, 31 was stabbed and beaten to death at the home she shared with her partner in Chirnside, Scotland. Her partner, Corey Dryden, 31 has been convicted of murder and sentenced to a minimum of 18 yrs.
Accountability is key - 426 officers dismissed in a year is significant, but real change needs culture shift and proper investment too. lbc.co.uk/news/uk/record…
👏 🙏 @MyNottingham leader Neghat Khan will write to Home Secretary @YvetteCooperMP about concerns regarding #MarilynManson’s scheduled gig at @nottinghamarena. westbridgfordwire.com/marilyn-manson… #NoStageForManson #NoAbusersOnStage #MACSxNoStageForAbusers #Nottingham
Women are told—and often forced—to wear the niqab and burka because men can’t control themselves. How about men learn to control themselves and stop being so weak? That’s exactly what this is about: weak, pathetic men.
Most of my time in pr*stitution, I was a child. Every punter knew this. Many commented on how great it was they could get to do what they wanted to someone underage. Regular guys, with wives, jobs, homes, children of their own. Why do they think it's okay to do this?
without a proper knowledge base of the area they are aiming to impact. You don't make smoking safer with a PR rebrand of tabaco. Rant over 😂
They are the root cause of high suicide rates, loneliness epidemics, lack of victim support & criminalisation of men and boys. I have worked in this (admittedly) very specific area for over a decade now & it's so frustrating seeing reactive programs pop up
Warning! Incoming rant: Gender stereotypes are harmful. BOTH masculinity & femininity are toxic. There is no such thing as postive/healthy masculinity or femininity. They are the root cause of lack of access to safety, justice, health care & citizenship for women and girls.
LONDON: Nigel Eccles, 67, who tried to film a mum & her young daughter getting changed at a leisure centre, has walked free. He was also caught with 100s of CSA images. Judge Katz said court delays allowed him to spare Eccles jail, as they had given him time to "seek therapy"