🇬🇧 IM 🇬🇧

The Illimitable Men blog is officially retired (and to be honest, has been informally for quite some time now). That being said, I have launched a new blog where I will publishing my writings now (you can think of as a sort of IM v2) Introducing to you... The Sovereign Citadel.

If you could build your life as well as your coping mechanisms, you wouldn't need your coping mechanisms. Coping mechanisms should be dismantled when they are no longer necessary, serving as transitionary tools rather than as psychic prisons. Don't make your cope your cage.

The perfect man's gaze is like a ray of sun on a blossoming flower for her.

If your hope is weak, you need to be more psycho. That is always the solution.

Do you have “aura discrimination” Like you just look at someone (even if attractive) and you just think “nah” Like they have an inherently repellent energy that no amount of overlayed hotness can compensate for Magnetic repulsion

A repeated pattern becomes a habit, a habit hardens into programming, programming shapes identity, and identity when unexamined becomes possession. To escape the demons of maladaptive behaviour, one must deconstruct, strip away, and rebuild from the root. The true “inner work”

The Greek word for ‘psyche’ refers to the mind, spirit, and soul which makes me wonder if the problem with modern psychology is its obsessive focus on the mind at the expense of soul and spirit.

Ego always has and always will be the greatest obstacle to love. Because love is about sacrificing the self for the other, whilst ego is about sacrificing the other for the self. This is why mutual self sacrifice is the winning formula. No asymmetry, just reciprocity.

There's almost always a way. Very rarely is there no way. There might be ways you cannot see, afford or execute, but the way is there. And if the way is there, then it simply becomes a question of making the way accessible, not doing the impossible. Have faith, persist, adapt.

True love for a woman is when a man becomes her muse.

High truth preference is a proxy for courage, and courage is a proxy for integrity. This is why it’s generally safer to trust people who don’t lie to themselves to cope. Introspective courage means narrative consistency, meaning structural integrity, which means lower…

Judge food by how you feel after you eat it, not while you’re eating it.

You don’t truly love the feminine until you’ve accepted it for all its dysfunctional ugly chaos, and are able to hold that in tension with its deep beauty. If you only see the ugly, you won’t love. If you only see the beauty, your love is a lie rooted in an illusion. See clearly.

"Words of affirmation" is a deceptively named love language. It is actually the art of noticing, and then articulating what has been seen.

A woman can never truly own a man she doesn’t give her soul to. She can screw him over, she can “win” at his expense, and “get hers”, but she’ll never actually bind the man’s soul, because that requires raw, pure femininity. Full possession of him requires total nakedness to him.

Don’t fucking fumble it. Maximise the probability of success by any means necessary.