Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.)
@EmotionsDoctor
The Emotions Doctor. Founder: @emotionscity, @eqhouseofafrica, and @adultcreche Author: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B092QRFLYF Youtube: @emotionsdoctor
Nigerians used to be known as happy people. We are slowly replacing that happiness with bitterness. We need to stop it, please. We can't lose our collective joy, laughter, and happiness. If we do, we will lose one of our ingredients.
This Donawon-Omah Lay conversation will make you understand the morbid energy that drives music Twitter now. An amicable split has been announced and ratified by both parties, after the end of a culturally impactful relationship. But the demand for drama on Twitter far…
I listened to this. She said the TRUTH even if it wasn't in a preferred delivery style. We must look inwards. We need to RESPECT OURSELVES. MEN and WOMEN. We need to go back to the proverb that says "A GOOD NAME is better than Silver or Gold".
Ghanaians are beginning to move like South Africans. Imagine what this thing is saying about us. Smh.
Emotional Intelligence turns achievement into fulfillment.
I shared 6 unconventional ways to heal your high blood pressure. I am looking for people who desire to heal themselves. Who do you know? youtube.com/live/lElYCuXmc…
I owe you SO FRESH, for this WISDOM!
Where are the Fathers? We all can do better. We all should do better. The world has changed. We now know better. The dynamics of parenting today are so different. And beyond providing money, which many mothers also do these days, fathers need to be more present and emotionally…
Where are the Fathers? We all can do better. We all should do better. The world has changed. We now know better. The dynamics of parenting today are so different. And beyond providing money, which many mothers also do these days, fathers need to be more present and emotionally…
Children’s end of session party, 97% present parents are mothers, 3% are fathers. Children will forever lean more towards their mothers 🤦🏽♂️😭
STOP THROWING YOURSELF AWAY: The hidden power of leftovers. There are parts of our lives we may pretend that don't exist. Memories we swept under rugs. Versions of ourselves we buried in silence. Messy relationships. Desperate choices. Things we did when we were starving for…

I have an intimate conversation with lovers and romantics yesterday. I also spilled some tea about my life. If you missed the gist, here you go youtube.com/live/_UtdUu3AS…
Mothers: I’ve witnessed what happens when boys are coddled instead of corrected when they are wrong—they end up standing before a judge. By then, correction isn’t a course change - it’s a conviction. - Jason Wilson
asking for permission before sharing someone's number is basic etiquette.
As you show up for yourself daily. a sweet question to ask is “Lord, pls show me what you are doing with my life”
Self-Love isn't just bubble baths. It’s saying NO without apologizing. There is a soft preservative in the word “NO.” For years, it looked like self-love was an Instagram vision: lit candles, frothy baths, a woman pausing to feel pretty and whole, steeped in lavender…

I shared 5 beautiful points on "How to finally love yourself". You will like it. youtu.be/DUO_e5SWWF8

i don't think people understand .. you can LITERALLY drive someone to a point of not wanting to be bothered with you at all, on ANY level. rather it's a friendship, relationship, family, etc. it's only so much one person can take !!
A gathering of yahoo boys talking about women would be the functional equivalent of a gathering of prostitutes talking about men. They’ve both seen the worst of the opposite gender and they make the mistake of ascribing such characteristics to every one of them. Both set of…
If you de where yahoo boys de talk about women💔
Stop waiting for a platform and stage. Create your platform and stage.
When siblings tell you to run from getting married to their sibling, please pay attention. They may or may not be saying the truth. But, your job is to watch and pray.
If you desire to learn how to feel good enough, and how to always show up for yourself, you should join our upcoming Emotional Intelligence Certified Specialist Course. To pick the last early bird slot, please send me a DM now.