✨unionicorn✨

Unrequited love is a CURSE

The normalization of casual sex ruined our generation

If you want to maintain healthy relationships in your life you have to learn how to reconcile the right way. When you mistreat or mishandle someone that you love and care about, apologize to them AND address the issue. Waiting for time to pass hoping it will get better is (1/3)

stop disrespecting yourself by making excessive efforts for someone who isn’t choosing you.

Who heals the healer? The ocean

Malignant narcissists don’t attack criminals or wrongdoers — they align with them. They save their attacks and smear campaigns for innocent people. Or worse, they attack the best of us. The ones who tell the truth. The ones who see through them. The ones who reflect back their…

Confront a man about what he did and watch him make it about you

This Mercury retrograde is going to end friendship, old connections, soul ties and situations that are not healthy and one sided. If it’s not meant to be it will end for good.

I (used to) try to love people into fixing themselves, but ]would end up resenting them in the end because I end up doing all of their emotional labor, thinking they’ll catch on and start to do the work for themselves if I just set the example, which also makes them hate me for…

This retrograde is showing you who never deserved full access to you.

He can give her that. He doesn’t want to give her that. Men will give a woman they actually love everything that the last woman used to beg him for. She won’t even have to ask. If making you feel loved doesn’t fill him with pride, he doesn’t love you. He doesn’t even like you.

“When you love someone you protect them from the pain, you don’t become the cause of it.” — Unknown

The worst kind of emotional manipulation isn’t yelling or ghosting, it’s staying just enough to make you feel crazy for wanting more. It’s when they’re warm, but unavailable. Interested, but never consistent. Not a villain, but worse. It’s when they’re ‘almost’, and almost…

I hope to marry a man who loves me deeply. Someone who would never hurt me and always tries to make me happy. A man who thinks I'm the most beautiful, and only has eyes for me because he loves me so much.

It’s actually devastating when you find out somebody you thought you could trust, someone who you thought you admired is actually a covert narcissist and turns out to be psychologically abusive. 😔

When you’ve been hurt over and over by people you’ve loved, trusted, shown compassion to, opened up to and made space for, it WILL chip away at you in a way logic can’t fix. You can know everything from being aware that it’s not your fault, that you showed up with care, that you…

Social sabotage is when someone tries to harm another person's social life or relationships on purpose. This can happen in many ways, such as spreading rumors excluding someone from a group or making fun of them in front of others. The goal of social sabotage is to make the

Just a friendly reminder. Train yourself not to become too emotionally attached to anyone because when they stop communicating or stop talking to you, you might not recover from it. Remember, people wake up with different feelings everyday. That’s

You’re not broken. You’re burned out. And the solution isn’t more caffeine. It’s more sleep, more silence, more real food, more boundaries, and more self-respect for what your body is trying to tell you. You don’t need another espresso. You need to listen.

People hate when your reality proves their gossip wrong.

"He’s such a great guy!" "They have always been so kind to me." "I can't imagine them hurting anyone." That’s the problem. The most dangerous abusers are the ones no one suspects—the ones who charm their way into your trust while making their victim feel completely powerless.…