#MothoWaBatho

@tboseZA

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#MothoWaBatho@tboseZA · Oct 24, 2019

I watched #pursuitofhappyness again. Going for ones dreams or chasing a second chance, is a scary ride. No wonder very few make it. God is kind but His lessons are cruel. You never know faith until you have nothing but yourself to rely on.

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#MothoWaBatho@tboseZA · 18 h

This weekend’s Fun Guide!!

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Beauty Mthembu@SontoBeauty2 · Jul 25

Archie BELL & THE DRELLS, STRATEGY @@KAYAON959 @TBOSEZA, Thank you so much for the beautiful show as always

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#MothoWaBatho@tboseZA · Jul 25

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NNkabi kayikhonjwa@Touch_unchained · Jul 25

Non-given apology should be accepted on account of her changed behaviour, but Access must be denied. People must account, coz your childhood wounds are very valid my sister. She must simmer in the consequences of her poor decisions, I'm sorry🤞

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#MothoWaBatho@tboseZA · Jul 25

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TTEBOGO@mr_Tebsza · Jul 25

Life becomes easier when you learn to accept an apology you never got 👊

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#MothoWaBatho@tboseZA · Jul 25

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DDa Excutive@DaExcutive · Jul 25

At one stage u will need to forgive her. Love is about forgiving. One thing I have learned our parents don't owe us an apology. Your children need they grandmother like u had a grandmother. Don't deny your children that bond. Let her fill the gap with her grandchildren.

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Ntokozo Zulu@Ntontozana · Jul 25

@tboseZA Bra Sam’s story is proof that your passion will make room for you 🥰🥰🥰 #KwaThemaStandUp

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#MothoWaBatho@tboseZA · Jul 25

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UUncle T@Thibos_G · Jul 25

Parents struggle a lot with accountability and apologising. I see it with my old man, his actions tell me he is remorseful but it’s hard for the words to come out. Hee wanting to come live with you, it’s in a way a form of her saying sorry. My advice, let her come and chat

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Pearl Tshabalala_the Coach@EmandlaAkho · Jul 25

#blindspot You can't change the past but you can heal from it. Seems like you need a family session with your brother & mother with a counsellor. If nothing comes from that, then you need to go for your own counselling & heal. You deserve peace

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Nonkululeko Khumalo@KhumaloOla · Jul 25

I’m not excusing what umama did kodwa please show her some grace. Our parents grew up in a completely different era and we don’t know what lead to her becoming an alcoholic. Please see her changed behaviour as an apology. All the best to all 3 of you ❤️ #TheBlindSpot

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Thami ka Ntuli@thamintuli · Jul 25

@tboseZA Ahh Tman your guest there is extraordinary a mean DJ his jazz set is something else . One of my favourite works of his is the Salif Keita painting. He inspires. ✊

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Dhlomo Komane@Dihlomo · Jul 25

Life is tough As adults we are accepting apologies that our ears will never hear in this life time! You and your brother must seek professional help or assistance… You cannot go on with life with such heavy burden #TheBlindSpot

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#MothoWaBatho@tboseZA · Jul 25

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nnick nthala@nicknthala · Jul 25

It seems like you also need professional help too to deal with the trauma, so that you and moms can move forward. E sale mmago, make time while you still can

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#MothoWaBatho@tboseZA · Jul 25

Your blind spot is that you ALL need professional help. A family counselling session where you can discuss everything together with a professional. #TheBlindSpot

##MothoWaBatho@tboseZA · Jul 25

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#MothoWaBatho@tboseZA · Jul 25

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LLucas@lucasmoagi12 · Jul 25

Your mom is her own first prize. She puts herself ahead of anything. When she was an alcoholic, booze was her happy place. Now that she is sober, she seeks attention from the very same people who never mattered. She is self-centred. I would choose peace and keep her at a distance

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#MothoWaBatho@tboseZA · Jul 25

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CCathy Dickson@KhaboNomhle · Jul 25

Go seek counseling. Or find a mediator where y'all can all sit down and unpack this. African parents don't know that they need to apologize to their children. It was never taught. They've also had to grow up accepting everything around them. So seek professional help for all of u

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#MothoWaBatho@tboseZA · Jul 25

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#MothoWaBatho@tboseZA · Jul 25

Bra T, the ones who don’t tell you what your partner’s up to? It’s usually because they want her. #CheckIn

##MothoWaBatho@tboseZA · Jul 25

Welcome to #TheBestTInTheCity... #CheckIn: When you see your friend’s partner out with someone else, what is your responsibility? This is called a Loyalty Conflict, where you hesitate, not because you condone the behaviour, but because you fear the fallout. If roles were…

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#MothoWaBatho@tboseZA · Jul 25

Personally I'd want to know, so definitely snitching.

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Ntokozo Zulu@Ntontozana · Jul 25

@tboseZA I never tell my friends because more often than not, I don’t have the tools to help them after giving them the bad news. But one thing for sure that girl will end up fighting with the said guy, thinking I am also his girlfriend. Ngizohlanya ngathi ujolela mina #CheckIn

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#MothoWaBatho@tboseZA · Jul 25

#CheckIn

MMrsB_@KhumaloNomusa · Jul 25

Uncle T.. I am snitch snitch snitch, with evidence even. Pictures and all. Because without evidence I would be accused of being jealous friend

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