LAYOS CHOICE
@omolayo_ldn
Host @theappointmentshow
stop letting people consume you. they didn’t call? go to sleep. they didn’t message you? put your phone down and have a better day. they left you on read? delete the conversation. they didn’t make an effort? match their energy. never let your happiness depend on anyone.
Friends. Having actual friends. Not familiar acquaintances or online mutuals. Real Friends. One of the best hacks for a fulfilling life.
What is a luxury that most people don’t realise is a luxury?
ngl depression isn’t always feeling deep sadness. sometimes it’s watching yourself lose interest in everything you love and not being able to do anything about it.
Nic definitely owes her a 1 to 1 conversation lol
ngl having to beg someone to do something with you and then seeing them do it with others willingly is a different kind of hurt
Stop falling for the “low maintenance” friendship propaganda. They’re not low maintenance with that man they like. they text back, show up and stay consistent. But with you? Silence becomes unspoken loyalty and distance is bonding? You’re being played and used as a placeholder
I’m real strict about my boundaries now because every time I wasn’t, I paid the price. That’s a lesson I refuse to learn twice.
Huda isn’t the best friend there but the girls brushed pass orlandria and nic kissing outside a challenge.. chelly went to Chris TWICE even though she knows Huda likes him too.. and when Jeremiah was in the villa they wanted him to do more in challenges.. weird. #loveislandusa
