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i don't easily give up on ppl but when i feel like they don't care about me anymore & they don't show any interest in me unlike before, i think i should stop & once i detach from someone, reconnection with me becomes impossible. once i'm done, i'm done.<<< - As Tahzeeb Hafi said

idk why my life has become so dry, even with a crowd of people around me. i don't get this sudden loss of interest in everything i loved and opted for. i have given up my fears, hopes, studies, frnds, goals, everything. idk if i am falling or adulting. <<< - As Jaun Elia said

You start to lose many friends once you become silent. Such people will be around you all the time when you're smiling and laughing, but will leave you on your own once you're not yourself. Remember the faces, they were never yours from the beginning. <<< - As someone said

Stop sending long paragraphs & messages explaining how you feel. We can't force ppl to choose us. it doesn't matter what you say, if they don't care they just don't & nothing you say will change that. Keep your guard up. Don't waste your time and energy. <<< - As Komal Joya said

Funny how your heart is so heavy sometimes that you feel like it will burst or crush under the weight of all that grief you carry but it just doesn't. Something about human heart, it just endures. Takes in all that loss and still manages to hope. <<< - As Zehra Nigaah said

Betrayal from friends is one of the worst experience ever. just by thinking how you openly talk about your feelings with them and then later on, they'll be the first one to invalidate it. i've always hated this type of friends. <<< - As Ahmad Faraz said

Sometimes all we can do is remember them deeply inside our hearts & cry out relentlessly. While the volcano of emotions deep down in our heart erupts in a way as if it's going to burst, such that the pain seems pretty unbearable. <<< - As Nasir Kazmi said

if someone no longer aligns with you or meets you halfway, give them less access. Stop romanticizing the past and start valuing yourself. Removing yourself from any table where alignment and reciprocity are no longer being served is self-care. <<< - As someone said

They say right person feels like home but nobody told u about what the wrong can feel like, they'll make u feel like unwanted, unappreciated, unloved and with the wrong person you'll be so lost that u don't even know yourself even after their departure. - As someone said

Don't text me randomly and ask me to tell you what's wrong if you're only curious and not genuinely concerned. it's emotionally draining to talk about certain things and it sucks when you just "Oho, chalo Allah behtar karega" and leave. <<< - As Josh Malihabadi said

Felt betrayed by some people whom i thought to be on my side. trust issues went so high that i don't believe in words anymore. i will be healing from the traumas that i didn't create. i hope y'all can sleep well at night after ruining others pure intentions.<<< - As someone said

Certain memories bring so much ache & pain whenever u remember them. Certain insecurities just breaks ur heart each time u think about them. Some griefs & scars just stay there in the back of your mind & heart, u just need a trigger to relive them. <<< - As Ahmad Faraz said

The period between 20 to 30 has to be the most worrisome part of adult life. You worry about so much. Your dreams. A life partner. Finances. The future. Your parents getting old. Everything. Very easy to fall in depression or develop anxiety disorders. <<< - As someone said

Being alone for a while is dangerous. Once you see how peaceful it is, you don't want to be around people anymore. Some day i believe in communication, on the other days i believe in silence. in between the two, i exist. <<< - As Nadia Gilani said

The dilemma you feel when someones actions are hurting you but their words are comforting you at the same time. Their words lift you up, but there actions slam you back down. This uncertainty can create a constant state of anxiety. <<< - As someone said

Sometimes the concept "Dukh baatne se kam hoty hain" is partially wrong, some sorrows are better unspoken to anyone, some sorrows should be kept within oneself & should try to overcome by self instead of disclosing to anyone, bcz people can give u nothing .<<< - As someone said

No matter how many close friends you have or how many people say they'll be there for you, at the end of the day you're always by yourself and all alone. you're always on your own no one will ever be there for you like you are there for yourself. <<< - As someone said

The amount of courage people need to keep their pain to themselves is insane. it sounds easy, but no, it's not. Your heart bleeds internally with pain but u can't do anything except to keep it to yourself because no one comes with the bandage we need.<<< - As Parveen Shakir said

it gives shock to see how disrespectful a person can become even after you have done so much for them over the years. But you can't make them do it, you can just watch them doing all that with a painful smile wishing it never had happened. <<< - As someone said

Everybody talks about cutting people off, but nobody really talks about the grief that comes with having to stand firm on that decision. Knowing it's not what you wanted but what was necessary for your wellbeing. Cutting people off is never easy, NEVER. <<< - As Ahmad Faraz said