Ebby
@ebedeegram
I stopped expecting loyalty from people who aren’t even honest with themselves. It’s not about holding a grudge, it’s about knowing where to stop hoping.
Your mental health isn’t your fault, but it’s your responsibility to take care of it. We don’t choose what hurts us, but we can choose to start healing.
Some days feel easy. Some feel hard. But every single one matters in how they shape you. Even the tough ones teach you something about your strength, your limits, or what you care about. They all add up to who you’re becoming.
It’s the weekend. I want to say I did what I said I would do even though I didn’t accomplish all. But I am on the journey to becoming more of who I’m meant to be.
I know I won’t be here forever, and neither will this moment. So I’m making sure I live right while I’m here so when I’m gone, no one has to explain, fix, or defend how I lived.
I don’t always feel like doing the work. But I’ll do it anyway because my future depends on it.
Being a good friend doesn’t mean always being their therapist. If you always listen, always show up, always care, but they never do the same, that’s not friendship. That’s emotional labor.
The older you get, the more you realize how deeply your childhood shaped how you love, what you fear, what you believe, and what you chase in life.
You can smile, show up, and still feel empty. Healing isn’t always visible. Some carry the weight quietly until it crushes them. Be kind in your doings, you don’t know what someone’s fighting to survive.
Success isn’t always about making it big. Sometimes it’s just showing up, staying alive, and trying again, especially when everything in you wants to give up.
The people who say 'money isn't everything' are usually the ones who either have it... or have given up on getting it.
Your circle should want to see you win, not just be around when you’re losing.
One of my life goals is to become a creator of opportunities rather than someone who has to seek them.
Life is brutally short. You get to spend most of it working, worrying, or waiting for the “right time.” The harsh truth is, you’ll leave without achieving some of your dreams. One day, without warning, it all ends.
I don’t explain myself anymore. Either you get me or you don’t. Not my job to convince you.
Dear Lord, Thank You for seeing me through the first half of the year. It wasn’t perfect, but You stayed with me. I pray the next half is full of wins, blessings, joy, love, and Your peace. Amen.
People leave when they either find someone better or when you stop being useful to them.