Nicole

celibacy becomes very easy for a woman when she realizes that there is literally no man worth being involved with if he isn't helping to improve her life and loving her correctly. she can go months on top of months, it’s really nothing.

until you date a generous man (i didn’t say rich), you’ll understand that men love to provide for their women. they don’t wait to be asked, they genuinely find joy in doing it, they take initiative, they know your favorites and will order them.

a girl on tik tok just said "i would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and i think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.

Manifesting I marry a dominant lover boy who is kind, emotionally intelligent, problem solver & weak in the knees about me.

some y'all think you make good partners because you won't cheat but fail to realize you're inconsiderate, unappreciative, manipulative, insecure, lack empathy, have poor communication skills, harboring emotional trauma from past relationships.

I hope I don't marry someone who comes home & ruins everyone's mood. I hope I don't become someone who comes home and everyones mood is ruined.

i saw a TikTok earlier this week, where this girl was manifesting by using the phrase "show me how good it can get".... and I haven't stopped saying it since. i'm open, God. show me how good it can get.

my mom once told me “unfortunately life doesn’t wait for you to be okay. you gotta get up everyday and keep pushing through” and i think y’all need to engrave this into your soul.

it’s so much fun going on a date with someone who is deeply invested in courting you. the gifts, the thoughtful gestures, the careful selection of places they know you’d like, everything else being sorted and your only role being to look pretty.

i gotta marry somebody that takes holidays seriously. a family person. birthdays, graduations, anniversaries etc, must all be celebrated fully in my household😌

Men are not attractive anymore and im not even talking about looks. they are so disrespectful, want princess treatment, can't communicate, can't connect emotionally, immature and more.. is a complete turn off.

Being loved by a lovey dovey man is top tier, no girl wants a man who acts like he don't CARE !!

Girl to Girl: Never treat a man better than how he treats you. You've to give men the same exact energy they give you. It's nice to go above & beyond for the person you love but ultimately men are selfish & will always choose themselves. Always choose yourself first ladies !!

I hope every sensitive lover girl finds her reassuring lover boy who treats her like she's a gift from heaven.

Please date emotionally intelligent men. it's nice to have someone who's aware of your sensitivity & learns to handle your feelings gently, with patience and care. it is comforting to show your vulnerability to someone & have them learn how to respond to it with understanding >>

one-sided ghosting is bad, but two-sided ghosting is one of the most beautiful things we have. just two people silently deciding that they will definitely never contact each other again. it doesn't get better than that.

TRUST ME, IF A MAN DOESN'T HAVE A SENSE OF URGENCY WHEN IT COMES TO YOU, HE AIN'T THE ONE FOR YOU !!

this man really put relationships in perspective for me today. he said “he married the woman he learned to love unconditionally, not the woman he fell in love with, because falling in love is like being high, and anything you can fall into, you can fall out of” and thats a fact.

Girl, If he lack emotional intelligence it will never work out fr. You shouldn't have to teach a man how to apologize, how to take accountability, or how to treat you with respect. These are basic qualities that a Man should already possess before entering a relationship !!

Yk what's attractive?? CLARITY. A man who doesn't leaves a room for U to guess his intentions. A man who brings consistent efforts, communicate effectively, admits when he is Wrong, prepares himself to be a husband, getting his priorities in line, no DRAMA just pure leadership!