Knowlton Atterbeary
@atterbeary
Family Man | Risk Taker | Authentic to the core 🇺🇲🇺🇲 Authenticity Matters 👇
Who would you be if you could be free of judgment or fear? #Authenticity #Leadership #PersonalGrowth
You weren’t born to play a role. You were born to be a force. Drop the mask. They were never clapping for the real you anyway.
Some people will never understand you — because they’ve never been brave enough to be themselves. And that’s okay. Your journey doesn’t require their validation.
We talk about growth like it’s pretty. But sometimes growth looks like walking away from everything familiar. Sometimes it looks like isolation. And sometimes — it's just learning how to be okay with being misunderstood.
Not every scar needs to be hidden. Some of them are proof you made it through. That you didn’t break, even when everything around you did.
People are addicted to pretending. Polished masks. Perfect captions. Filtered lives. But eventually, the mask cracks. And when it does — you better know who you are underneath.
There’s a quiet kind of power in not needing to explain yourself. Live real. Let the fake wonder how you do it.
You can waste years building a life that looks good on the outside. But if you’re empty on the inside, it’s all a performance. And applause won’t fill a hollow soul.
You don’t need to soften your truth to make it easier to swallow. If it chokes them, it wasn’t meant for them.
Being real will cost you comfort, convenience, and sometimes company. But it will give you yourself. And that’s the only win that matters.
People will leave when you stop people-pleasing. Let them. You didn’t come this far to be everyone's favorite lie.
If you’re exhausted, check how much of your life is a performance. There’s nothing heavier than pretending to be fine.
Most people fear rejection. But the real fear should be waking up one day and realizing you never lived as you.
The truth will cost you fake friends, shallow praise, and empty rooms. But what you gain? Peace. Power. Real ones.
You don’t owe anyone the soft version of your truth. Especially not the ones who prefer you silent and agreeable.
Polished is safe. But it’s also forgettable. Leave an imprint—not a performance.
Trying to be liked by everyone is how you disappear. Stand for something. Let the rest fall away.
Realness isn’t for everyone. It triggers the fake. It exposes the performative. Be it anyway.
Conforming is a slow death. Every time you bite your tongue to fit in, a piece of you goes quiet. Speak up. Stay wild.
You were never “too much.” They were just too invested in playing small.
You’ll never find clarity in the crowd. Step back. Tune in. Your direction was never meant to be voted on.