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I hate telling boomers anything about my life. When we were getting married, every comment was bitter regret veiled as a joke. When we were buying a house, every comment was about how awful home ownership is. Now we're having a baby, and it's more of the same. Miserable ppl.
This is what I mean when I say divorce is a boomer phenomenon. Everyone in my generation grew up under the shadow of this polygamous spectacle of a parent or friend’s parent with two or more living ex-wives/husbands. Having to celebrate their “happiness” over and over again. The…
I worked for the same company for over 30 yrs. I thought loyalty was important until I was laid off. There is no loyalty in the workplace. You’re important to them until they don’t need you. Always do what’s best for you. Don’t ever let your job define you. You’re so much better
Ladies I need y’all to understand 27-35 will be some of the hottest years of your life if you think 23 is prime as far as looks you have been lied to!
I've seen videos of fathers picking up pieces of their children. People in tents being burned alive. Mothers shot dead while begging for food. And now, emaciated babies in the last moments of their lives. Israel's war on Gaza is the most evil thing I have ever seen in my life.
the ultimate friend hacks are to tell people when you’re thinking about them, never worry about double texting, remove all inhibition about being annoying and to just be spontaneously loving
Depression is a monster that won’t give up when it comes to destroying your life. It will attach itself to your chest and feast on your heart until there’s nothing left. It will fool your mind into believing that you deserve all the pain it brings with it.
And that’s something some of you never seen someone do or rather it’s just too much. Some say “too hard” as others of you have an obsession with “fixing” rather unconsciously due to your upbringing that’s sometimes we have to face
A lot of people hide behind ‘love and light’ to avoid facing themselves. But the truth is if your light comes at the cost of denying your shadow, it’s not love. It’s performance. And performances can still hurt people. The most dangerous people to encounter because this will
I have treated over 40,000 patients since the 1980s, and I have seen medicine change from a compassion-based profession into a corporate greed-driven business.
She’s the kind of love that doesn’t rush or demand—just comforts, sits beside your storm, and holds your hand through the rain.
recently heard someone say that creativity is a form of self-love and that creating art and expressing yourself means loving yourself… i’ve always had a difficult relationship with my art but i think those are good words to live by
When patients share a story they’ve told me before, I don’t stop them and say that I’ve already heard that one. Instead I assume that I didn’t hear what they needed me to the last time, and try to listen more deeply and with new years. Try this with parents / friends / kids ✨
Good morning! This is my painting 'Peaceful Sunrise' 36x48 acrylic on canvas. Have a wonderful day!
pregnancy is the most contact i’ve had w the medical system in a long time and it seems like every week some slightly insane new thing arises. i woke up to a voicemail saying a new dr reviewing my chart decided i needed another ultrasound. i got pretty nervous something was…