Lilé
@LilevanderW
Ex model, ex corporate. Now, just me. Exploring the complexities of life & the journey to peace. Get one mindset shift + tiny action to live more honestly ↓
If you’re a woman who feels lost, unseen, or unworthy, this is for you. For most of my life, I’ve... - Struggled with eating disorders - Battled depression, burnout, and anxiety - Dealt with low self-worth & toxic relationships But somehow, I went from feeling unhealthy and…

The space you live in reflects the energy you carry. A cluttered home breeds a cluttered mind, while a clean, intentional space creates clarity and peace. Honor yourself and the energy you allow into your life. Clean up your space.
There's such a thing as being "too nice". It's suppressing your own needs for the sake of others. Start prioritizing yourself, even if it's not "nice".
The amount of risk you can take practically differs from person to person. The amount of risk you can handle emotionally differs from person to person. You can ask for advice when you don't know what to do, or how to get ahead, but in any situation, be it about money,…
The worst part of not believing in yourself is that you're always right.
Sometimes the brightest energy comes from the deepest struggles. Being bubbly doesn’t mean you’re okay. It can be a way to cope, distract, or survive. Check in with a naturally bubbly personality in your life today. They deserve the same care they give to others.
To everyone: please ignore all the ridiculous and provoking questions/messages people post here on X. They’re merely intended to trigger an emotional response (stress) and because it does, it triggers you to respond and waste your mental energy. Focus on content that adds…
Love should be a steady presence. A voice that soothes, not silences. Arms that hold, not cage. A space where your soul exhales, knowing it is seen, heard, and wholly accepted.
You’ve spent most of your life healing from things you never deserved. Enough. I’m not just building a following, I’m building a voice. One that reminds you that you matter. That you're incredible. That you're enough. Don't let anybody ever tell you differently.
Peace of mind is actually simple: a healthy lifestyle, a meaningful purpose, and a loving family.
The courage to be yourself doesn’t mean you’re never scared. It means you don’t let that fear stop you from showing up as you are. You don’t need to be any different. You don’t need to be tougher. You just need to stop performing.
The only way to build the muscle of authenticity is to use it. Display your preferences. Share your art, interests, and passions. Acknowledge when you don’t know something. Be truthful, not just in words, but in actions.
Not every difficult relationship is a lesson you're obligated to learn.
The uncertainty of life doesn't make it meaningless: it makes it precious. Think on this: 1. We waste time like it's infinite, yet every hour is one we never get back. What do you really want to spend it on? 2. We chase status, validation, and things that won’t follow us…
"I have no special talent. I am only passionately curious." – Albert Einstein
The beginning of change is to recognize what our hearts really want, not just what they’re used to.
A lot of us bury our real desires under shame or self-protection. We say, “I don’t really care about that,” when the truth is, we care deeply, we’re just afraid to say it. So we chase half-hearted goals and wonder why we feel unfulfilled when we reach them.