Fathers Diary

Ships that wait for the perfect wind never sail. Farmers who wait for the perfect weather never plant. Athletes who wait for the perfect mood never train. There's no "right time ”, just time passing. Don't waste your life. There's no refund for wasted time. Do things.

If you survive the darkest times of your life alone and rise as if nothing happened, you'll go far in life.

Once you realise that anything can happen; sickness, death, loss of your job...Literally, anything in the blink of an eye, you become very humble. The tables turn and that's how crazy life can get. As a man, always stay humble, and grateful for everything.

A boy becomes a man through pain, failure, rejection, loss, disrespect, loneliness, and heartbreaks; NOT AGE. Some men wake up at 30. Some at 18. Most never do. As a man, nobody is coming to save you.

As a man, when you start making your own money, taking responsibility, and paying your bills, you'll eventually understand why sometimes your father will isolate himself.

Take a look at your life. If you’re not where you want to be, you know what actions are needed to turn your life around. To whine about your situation and play the victim doesn’t serve you in any way. The best route will be to get things done. Daily.

As a man, avoid alcohol at all costs. It has no single benefit to your life. It only makes you poor, sexually weak, bitter, and fat.

Stop waiting for the right time. If you wait too long; - The coffee gets cold - The door closes - The girl moves on - Your dreams fade You need urgency Remember time is passing and you're growing older In your 60s and 70s, you won't wish you had taken fewer risks Do it now.

The older you get as a man, the more staying in shape sets you apart. Most men let their bodies fall apart and use age as their excuse. You must stand out. Wake up, go on walks, hit the gym, and eat well. Medical bills can bankrupt you. Trust me.

One of the most dangerous types of people to have around you are friends who hate you but act like they don't. The types who secretly want you to fail because they can't push themselves to put in the necessary work.

As a man, before you start a family, forgive your dad. The man was living life for the first time when he raised you. He didn’t know better and he was learning too.

Once you experience the pain of being broke, disrespect, or loss. You change completely. You become the hardest-working man ever. Even when odds seem stacked against you. You have to win. That's the moment real men are made.

There comes a time in a man’s life when he has; - no girlfriends - no side chic's - no hook ups - no sneaky links - Less than 6 friends. Just you, your grind +zero distractions That phase you become a REAL MAN.

1. Make money. 2. Buy assets 3. Get rich. 4. Spend time with family 5. Keep it quiet and enjoy your life People hate seeing others doing better than them. Keep your finances private.

Be a man who will take any setback in life like just a scratch, rest, rest, re-strategise, and rebuild everything back like nothing happened. You can always figure it out.

Breakups are okay. Moving on is okay. Saying no is okay. Starting from zero is okay. Quitting your job is okay. As a man, what's not okay is wasting another year doing the same old shit.

A quiet man is either going through unthinkable pain or planning to save himself. Don't mess with him.

Don't fuck up your progress trying to rush the process. Brick by brick. Day by day. Step by step. That's how you build. You can't rush greatness.

You’re getting distracted again, remember the life you promised yourself. Get back on track.