Amimi❤️
@Dr_Meenerh
Alhamdulillah.
May we speak truth with grace, not cruelty. May we criticize with wisdom, not pride. May we correct without ego or the urge to shame. May our words carry empathy and justice. And may we never forget that we too are flawed and in need of mercy. Ameen.
Like they say, some words should be taken straight to the grave, also some pictures should never leave the gallery of your phone
Bottom line: the prophet couldn’t replace her due to her traits; the same way a man could meet a woman he can’t replace due to her idiosyncrasies. This isn’t about romantic relationships alone. Some people come into your life only once, and you won’t meet anyone like them again.
Their story wasn’t some tale of superficial romance, but about duty to the service of Allah. She was promised a palace in Paradise for such duty, as relayed by Angel Jibril. Not the best example, for there would never be another of such existence. She’s the first person to…
All of these countries now signaling that what is happening in Gaza is wrong and demanding the starvation end is pure theatre. What it signals is that Netanyahu has almost completed the task— to ethnically cleanse and destroy the region so that Palestinians cannot return.
Ameen yaa Allah.
I’ve worked so hard to not fall back into that dark, sad place. But grief…… Grief has a way of finding you. And today, it’s hitting me like a ton of bricks. I just received news about a childhood friend. Innā lillāhi wa innā ilayhi rājiʿūn. My heart is heavy. Ya Allah,
The same way the Prophet found a woman who supported him spiritually, I could find a woman who helps me grow in my deen, and if I lose her, I might spend my whole life searching for her in others. Meeting someone who ticks all your boxes twice is almost impossible.
I insist that Rasul’s story isn’t the best example for this discourse because theirs is a spiritual incursion that changed humanity. But again, you are shifting the scope of the argument by stating that this isn’t just about romantic relationships. Then it’s about human…
“I did not feel jealous of any of the wives of the Prophet as much as I did of Khadijah, although I did not see her. The Prophet would often mention her, and whenever he slaughtered a sheep, he would say—
Wallahi there’s only one woman who is truly irreplaceable, and she’s called Mother. At some point in the pursuit of a woman, it stops being about love and starts being about a bruised ego. May we have the wisdom to see that blurry line if we are ever on the verge of crossing it.
Pic 1: Lagos, 2022. Pic 2: Cambridge, 2025. Keep the faith.
Women, even if you’re not into weight lifting, please stay active. Walk. Dance. Swim. Stretch. Move however you want. Exercise isn’t just about looks, it’s about saving your life. Your heart, your bones, your hormones, your mind, they all need it. Move for you!
Too many women still avoid weight lifting for fear of “getting bulky.” Let’s bust that myth & talk about why lifting weights is one of the BEST things women can do for their body, mind, and long-term health.👇🏾
Bama Uban ba Dan.😂
May I never deprive myself of amour-propre and self-esteem, Ameen. Allah kyauta.