Chesed

I'm not going to give myself an enema in someone else's bathroom an hour before an orgy ever again

Anecdotally I see many first babies born to women in late 30s/early 40s in the Bay Area. Mostly these end up being only children (esp if first baby at 40+) but not always! The 39/41 or 40/42 pattern isn't unknown. Often but not always IVF.

Last night my husband tied my legs up with plastic sheeting from Home Depot (on a roll, the kind you wrap furniture in). Apparently it is cheaper and more ergonomic than bondage tape?

The actual experience of a Brazilian wax is unpleasant (wax tearing off pubic hair and awkward leg positioning) but I tend to feel mild euphoria a few minutes after

I think it's a bad idea to open your relationship while pregnant or early postpartum

Some people are heterofatalists while @Pandora_Delaney is about to move in with 2 boyfriends.

There is no problem with wanting men. It does help if you tell them, though.

Looking for recommendations for bodywork/massage in the East Bay ❤️

There is something startling about hearing a woman in her 40s use the word "adulting"

On a walk with 6 thirty-something women, a 7-week old baby, and a dog. A lot of joy.