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@B_quaintrelle
Doctoral researcher. Gastrointestinal Infections. Sage 🦄 . RT≠E. Views are mine only, not my employer's.
Not having to worry about a person is bliss, the major advantage single people enjoy. Companionship is also sweet, but the wrong one can reduce your life span. Having to think of another person and their actions that you can't control is crazy stress lol
Not having to worry about a person is bliss, the major advantage single people enjoy. Companionship is also sweet, but the wrong one can reduce your life span. Having to think of another person and their actions that you can't control is crazy stress lol
Science >>>>>
When I speak of autonomy, this is what comes to mind — clear, deliberate ownership of one’s own life and path. This man owned the suffering and the work to get out of it, and advocated for himself when it mattered. Having agency isn’t only being able to say ‘no’.
It'll be easier when you realise that giving people more of what they don't want every time, builds resentment. No matter how good your plans are for someone, it's a nuisance to them if they don't want it. Move on
how can you detach from someone who isn’t interested in you? genuinely asking, i can’t stand the pain anymore
If I would ever live this life again, I would not let it take long to believe in myself. I am infact brilliant, but it took me many years of doubt to believe it. And a rejection of me is not a rejection of my person.
One of the many sad effects of sexual liberation & situationship culture is that fewer and fewer women will experience men who are in love with them, moved by them. “Do men yearn” is a question born from a lifetime of giving yourself to dispassionate men, again and again
I am a scientist. I feel personally called to it because of the way it matches seamlessly with who I am. I could be successful in a dozen other things, but this is one path I will gleefully follow until the end.
One thing I’ve learned recently is that when you pour into yourself and when you put in work to heal, you stop dancing with the devil of dysfunction. Emotional maturity makes you outgrow people and some won’t offer grace, because your growth mirrors what they haven’t faced.
I’ve noticed a very questionable pattern. The more I went to therapy, gained the tools to emotionally regulate, and navigate conflict healthily … the less grace I received in quite a few of my interpersonal relationships??? What is that about?
I really like honesty as a trait in a person. And the men I generally respect are men who do not tell me what I necessarily want to hear. But men who are honest and comfortable with themselves.