Doc Lou
@AmmaSandy347
Ret. Psychotherapist, DCRS- HT- Ret. Professor -Psy, SS & CJ @ NSU & Purdue ❗️NO DM’s❗️Personal Opinions -Blue Mom👮🏻Military brat & auntie 🇺🇸👨🏻🚒
Calling it a day. It’s been a long one, and the rain outside feels like it knows. Some nights aren’t for pushing through. They’re for stepping back. Letting the noise settle. Letting your body exhale. Peace doesn’t come from pushing harder. I’ve known that for a long time. It…
Good morning from beautiful SoFLA. When You Know Your Value, You Stop Explaining Your Silence. There was a time I gave this space everything I had. My thoughts, my heart, my truth. Hoping it helped someone feel less alone. But lately, it’s different. The energy’s shifted. Too…

Sometimes you just gotta remind folks that peace and quiet isn’t free. 🤣

Good morning from beautiful SoFLA. It’s midweek, and let’s be honest, most of us are tired. Not just physically, but in that deeper way that’s hard to explain. Mentally stretched. Emotionally worn. Doing our best to keep up when part of us just wants to shut down. And yet,…

Good morning from beautiful SoFLA. 💛 Most people aren’t stuck because of laziness or lack of effort. They’re stuck because they don’t fully trust their own judgment. When you’re unsure of yourself, you start making decisions for the wrong reasons. To avoid discomfort. To win…

Good morning, from sunny SoFla. Some mornings don’t need deep thoughts. The coffee’s good. Your group chat’s still unhinged. And the world hasn’t completely fallen apart, yet. That’s enough for now. You don’t have to fix anything. Just keep the vibe semi-intact and your face…

Good morning, from beautiful SoFLA. When life gets heavy, the first instinct for many of us is to pull back. Handle it ourselves. Think it through in silence. Fix it quietly. But carrying the weight alone doesn’t make you stronger. It just makes you tired. The truth is, we…

This is where the self-checkout trauma, and corporate training at age 4 began. 😂

Good morning, from beautiful SoFLA. ☀️ Sometimes the kindest person is the one who’s had to choose silence the most. Not because they were okay with what happened, but because speaking up didn’t feel safe or worth the fallout. They’ve learned how to keep the peace by staying…

What you say is the mirror of what you are. Observe your projections. Our words often reflect our inner world more than we realize. Whether it’s judgment, compassion, frustration, or grace, what we put into language reveals what we’re carrying, consciously or not. It’s not just…
Good morning, from beautiful SoFLA. Clear Mind. Forward Motion. Your mind will offer distractions. Your body will carry tension. And the world will hand you noise. You don’t need to fix all of it, just don’t absorb it. Today isn’t about being your best. It’s about being…

Sometimes the ones who seem the strongest are just the ones who never stopped trying. They’ve carried more than they could say, quietly. They’ve had moments when their thoughts won’t slow down, when their chest tightens, when their whole body feels on edge even though nothing…

Good afternoon from beautiful So FLA. Fulfillment is greater than comfort We often mistake predictability for peace. It feels safe, familiar, and easy to manage. But sometimes, the things that feel the safest are the ones that hold us back the most. It’s easy to stay in…

Good morning, from rainy SoFLA People don’t stop chasing dreams because they’re too old. They stop because life wore them down. Because disappointment piled up. Because somewhere along the way, survival replaced purpose. Because they had someone who told them they couldn’t do…

Quick note for those who’ve been wondering why you can’t see me on Truth Social (TS): My TS account was unexpectedly and indefinitely banned for allegedly violating the Terms of Service — with no specifics provided. Yeah, I was just as surprised and shocked as everyone else. As…
Good morning from SoFLA. The people who seem the most “together” often carry what no one sees. Not because they’re hiding, but because they’ve learned that explaining doesn’t always help. Some things don’t need an audience. They need boundaries. They need time. They need…

Good morning from beautiful SoFla. Watch the Mirror, Not Just the Words Manipulators don’t come at you with force, they come with familiarity. They echo your tone, your values, even your pain, not to connect, but to disarm you. That’s how they get close. Not by being honest,…
