Quarius 🥂
@AmbitionIsLife9
#UNTAlumna #UNTHSCAlumna “There will come a time when you believe everything is finished; that will be the beginning.” -Louis L'Amour
I had broken up with my college bf & I was on the phone crying to my mama for the 1000th time. She told me, “I’m coming to you as a friend rn. We don’t have to sit here all day replaying this whole thing. Your problem is you’re still sad. Call me once you’ve gotten angry.”
What is the toughest thing someone has ever told you that stung at the time but you are grateful for
Last June I was overwhelmed with seasonal depression so I broke up w my bf bc I didn’t want to be a burden. He researched depression, helped me find a therapist, & paid for my self-care activities while I was working on myself. He fought for us when I couldn’t. This is us now 🤎
Share a piece of dating lore about yourself.
This is dope, I grew up with Jeremy! Small work to see this vital post.
like the fact you gave him a chance to help you seek for help. A lot of people push away those who genuinely want to offer them help. Infact they constantly push them away
The things a man will do for the people he truly loves.
Last June I was overwhelmed with seasonal depression so I broke up w my bf bc I didn’t want to be a burden. He researched depression, helped me find a therapist, & paid for my self-care activities while I was working on myself. He fought for us when I couldn’t. This is us now 🤎
He said he wasn’t letting you go 🥹
Last June I was overwhelmed with seasonal depression so I broke up w my bf bc I didn’t want to be a burden. He researched depression, helped me find a therapist, & paid for my self-care activities while I was working on myself. He fought for us when I couldn’t. This is us now 🤎
What a man!
Last June I was overwhelmed with seasonal depression so I broke up w my bf bc I didn’t want to be a burden. He researched depression, helped me find a therapist, & paid for my self-care activities while I was working on myself. He fought for us when I couldn’t. This is us now 🤎
Again, NEVER settling! They will do whatever when they want you. If they “nonchalant” they don’t fucking want you
Last June I was overwhelmed with seasonal depression so I broke up w my bf bc I didn’t want to be a burden. He researched depression, helped me find a therapist, & paid for my self-care activities while I was working on myself. He fought for us when I couldn’t. This is us now 🤎
That’s your husband. Hope the title changes soon. Good luck!
Last June I was overwhelmed with seasonal depression so I broke up w my bf bc I didn’t want to be a burden. He researched depression, helped me find a therapist, & paid for my self-care activities while I was working on myself. He fought for us when I couldn’t. This is us now 🤎
love my brother in law so much 🥹💕 you deserve it all sister!
Last June I was overwhelmed with seasonal depression so I broke up w my bf bc I didn’t want to be a burden. He researched depression, helped me find a therapist, & paid for my self-care activities while I was working on myself. He fought for us when I couldn’t. This is us now 🤎
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Last June I was overwhelmed with seasonal depression so I broke up w my bf bc I didn’t want to be a burden. He researched depression, helped me find a therapist, & paid for my self-care activities while I was working on myself. He fought for us when I couldn’t. This is us now 🤎
I sought the Lord. And He heard. And He answered.
Exposure therapy works so well. This time last year I had the worst flight anxiety. Me and my bf have taken 5 trips since May with our 6th being tomorrow, and it’s nothing to me now. I can’t believe how hesitant I was at first. I’m so happy we are traveling more this year.
i’m absolutely LIVING for this influx of black engagements and marriages. just so refreshing ❤️
Congratulations to Serayah and Joey BadA$$ on their engagement! 💍
We’re witnessing generations of women breaking cycles in real time. Teen girls are being given tools to delay motherhood and older women are embracing it when they’re ready. Both ends of that spectrum are worth celebrating. There’s also something beautifully radical about women
For the first time in U.S. history, there were more births among women 40 and older than among teenage moms. 🍼
Not disagreeing, shit is hard but I always think of that tweet that was like there’s a world of a difference between people who grew up with parents who just handled things vs parents who treated every inconvenience as a tragedy because it rewired my brain 💀
Sometimes I wake up and just laugh because how is life this difficult
If I ever was going to cancel class this summer, today would’ve been the day. It’s a miracle I made it to work. I’m so tired 😭
I used to say that I hold grudges in my relationships. I could never truly forgive my partners after arguments, but I don’t with my bf, & I learned it’s bc he doesn’t disagree w/me in a “low blow” kind of way. & if I have an issue w him, he doesn’t deflect. He adjusts.
I’m in individual therapy as well, but I feel like I’m learning so much about myself through pre-marital counseling. I’m unlearning all of the negative things I’ve told myself and/or past partners have said to me through my man loving me & meeting me where I’m at.
megan and klay working out together and he has a voiceover on the tiktok 😭😭😭 THIS IS HER HUSBAND IDC