Abstract Fairy
@AbstractFairy
piggy backing on the shoulders of giants DMs warmly welcomed :D
the content of a thought is the "I just need to …" the shape of a thought is noticing there is a sticky tangled ball of pain running around in your head and body you cannot resolve this through the contents the thought
I literally do not have a better pointer for this than 1. notice a thought 2. look at its shape 3. ?????!!
>finally learn how to do that thing >don't write a detailed, public tutorial on how to do it break the cycle of abuse
For some historical context on how to make friends, I was going through my mom's 1979 photo album. In that year she threw 14 parties with > 40 people, each with a distinct theme. This doesn't include dinner parties, get together, or any other social activities.
By combining, a better sense of how devpsych support ideally works: new objects of attention support new interpretations support new behavioral affordances (all three cosupportive). From the outside what we label 'more psychologically developed.'
Alois Hitler was the primary reason why Adolf became the way that he was. He always came home drunk and beat up Adolf because he was meek and effeminate for reading books and drawing. Then Adolf's mother died of cancer. Then he moved to Vienna and became homeless. Then he was
What exactly was traumatic about Hitler’s past
My wife makes fun of me for refusing pain medicine when I have a headache, but if I can’t feel the headache then how will I know when it’s gone?
Glad/sad: woke up multiple times during night horrible thoughts/mood etc. before would 100% take them seriously diagnosed this as psych issues to be interacted with at that level etc. now “oh I ate bread lol”
There's no country in the world where the billionaire founder and CEO of their biggest tech company just disappears for months Then loses his entire company and resurfaces as an entrepreneurship professor in Tokyo ???
Being detained and stuck in the arbitrary legal system of China is a very different experience than in the Western world Even the rest of Asia's legal systems like Thailand or Vietnam are not perfect but at least you stand a good chance being treated somewhat fairly as a…
"It is rare for people to come into themselves if no one is excited and curious about their core, their potential."
I once joined a new org where the IT team told me were saving screenshots of user’s desktops taken periodically via a DLP app, to an s3 bucket. I asked them to immediately turn off that feature and delete the bucket. There was no reason for it other than the DLP tool offered it,…
Part of the job as a cybersecurity professional is in fact arguing to purge and not log information about your customers. Data is not oil. It's risk.
oh no what the hell. this is going to hit the normie sexuality discourse like a truck.
Are we ready for the telegony conversation?
You can meander without a plan for 15-20 years but I think that's about the limit before something breaks or whatever in the human mind and then you're 40 and either find G_d or crash out
If more libs came in genuine contact with the 3rd world, they'd have an existential crisis Cultures aren't interchangeable or equal at all, and people aren't interchangeable blank slates either
what else is a small amount of friction that you can get rid of to get unexpectedly good results?
i think i have been vastly underpricing small amounts of friction