You are limitless
@8Frei
Life's a mystery. Username means 8Free in German. I believe in challenging the idea, not the person. Follows are not necessarily endorsements.
You have options in your visualizations. You can start with how you would like to feel and then switch into what you would like to have and who you would like to be with or you can start with what you would like to have and who you like to be with and then ask how you would feel.
Some people will hate you for focusing, because you are using your power and therefore, you are incapable of being manipulated by them. Other people will be proud of you for focusing, because you are tapping in to who you really are. In either case: Focus.
There may be other people out there, but that does not necessarily mean that there is love. Similarly, it may be sunny out there, but that does not necessarily mean that the weather is warm.
You may want connection with another human being, but that does not mean that you feel it. Similarly, you may want it to rain, how that does not necessarily mean that you can feel raindrops.
A lot of other people will disapprove of you because you will not give your power away over to them. Let them disapprove of you until the cows come home!
When you require another person's validation, you give your power away, because you have no control over what another person approves of or disapproves of.
It may be real, but the illusion is that you have to pay attention to it because it is real.
Connecting with other people often involves drinking alcohol. Connecting with God never does.
You think you are not good at something because you do not feel good when you do it. But, remember, broken crayons still color, you can choose to think thoughts that will create the future that you prefer, even if you thinking those thoughts does not feel comfortable at first.
You do not have to focus on anything. Even if it is real. Where you place your attention is always your choice and is always controllable by you.
Sometimes, the price you pay for exercising your power is other people disapproving of you.
I think you can sense if someone else likes you just by the way you feel when you are physically near them. I don't think you need to say or do anything awkward in order to find out whether or not they are interested in being with you.
A lot of other people have no interest and will make no effort in connecting with you and this is a very good thing, because this inspires you to develop an interest in connecting with yourself and putting in the effort that is necessary in order to connect with yourself.
Agreement always feels better than disagreement. That is why so many people choose to give away their own power, which is their ability to think for themselves, in order to experience harmonious agreement with the other people who physically surround them.
There is a difference between doing something because you want the result that it will give you versus doing something solely to make you feel better. You may clean your house, even though you do not feel like it, because you want the result of a clean home.
I think kindness and respect is what I value the most in a person. After that is sobriety.
It is necessary to harness your power, but harnessing your power will not give you love. Remember how I have talked about how awkwardness is looking for things where they are not? It is awkward to look for love in power, just as it is awkward to look for love in pornography.
There are so many toxic people out there. The notion that you are supposed to put in effort in connecting with them is a joke. There are good and loving people out there, but I do not believe that you have to force yourself to bond with them. The bond will be as natural as trees.
There are a lot of people out there, but it is not your job to try to connect with them all. That would be an impossible task. Work on connecting with yourself and then just notice who you naturally click with.